Monday, 08 February 2010

  • Another busy day.

    Today was a typical Monday,
    except for the fact that Laurent and I started working on painting the bathroom.

    Early in the project, working on the "Rootbeer" color:

    (From the hallway)


    (Toward the hallway)

    And later, first coat of Rootbeer complete:

    (From the hallway)


    (Toward the hallway)

    More pics later after we finish the second coat of Rootbeer and the secondary color, which is a light caramel.

    ~*~*~*~*~
    Other than that, it was mostly school.

    Except for when Paul called me at 2:30, interrupting a VERY dramatic history reading I was doing for Jacob,  to remind me that we had an orientation meeting at the Phoenix Rod and Gun club at 3:30, to which I needed to bring Jacob -- wearing his karate uniform -- so that I could leave from there and take him straight to class.
    For which phone call I was exceedingly grateful,
    since my brain was entirely disconnected with said appointment schedule.
    We went, we were oriented, we left,
    and I managed to get the boy to class 20 minutes late, thanks to some dufus that did something suspicious on the I-17 and got himself pulled over for a car search by the police, which slowed traffic down to a 15mph pace.

    During the abbreviated class time, I sped through Wal-mart picking up a much needed new shower rod and curtain to go in the bathroom once the paint is dry, as well as some more lightbulbs, which that room will need with the new, bolder color scheme.

    Now we are finished with supper, and I'm ready to sit down for a bit of reading time.

    ~*~*~*~*~

    For anyone with an interest in learning more about living with Asperger's and other autism spectrum disorders, Xanga has a related blogging community called
    Autisable
    I will be blogging there specifically about
    Our Fascinating Journey with Asperger's Syndrome,
    while of course, continuing with the day-to-day fun here.

  • Sunday Re-cap

    Another Sunday, another visit to a new church.  All these churches we are visiting have their own strengths and "vibe" if you will, it is quite fascinating.  This one was a Lutheran church (Mo.Syn.) and they were a happy, huggy bunch (and really good singers)!  We felt very welcomed by everyone.  Jacob was unusually calm (not fidgety or bouncy) during the service, very quiet and taking everything in.  It might have had something to do with the cushy pews...

    Lisa was with us for the day yesterday, which meant that Paul had to go pick her up in the van before church, in case Layla was coming too, since Layla needs a car seat, and the van has one built in.  However, he failed to remember that I lost my keys to CEL, so I had to drive Fabio instead when I came to meet him at church with the rest of the kids.  That was not a problem since I have missed driving my big truck.  Anyway, after church we grabbed a quick lunch at BK, and then headed out to go home.  Paul let me choose which I wanted to drive home, so I chose the minivan, mostly because I usually get the impression he would like to NOT have to drive it.   So he hopped into Fabio, and as I was backing out, I saw him walking toward me across the parking lot, waving me down.  I stopped and rolled down the window (which surprised me greatly, since the driver's window has been stuck "up" for a week or so) and he said that he had apparently royally flooded the engine, and could he please have a ride home.  Of course, I had to snicker a little that HE had flooded it, when it had started up fine for me in the morning when it was cold.  

    So anyway, fast-forward about an hour or so, back at home and everybody is chilling out, playing on computers.  Paul says hey, drive me back to BK so I can bring the truck home.  Good enough, off we go.  So, as he's getting out he says, "Ok, now WAIT till I get it started before you leave!"  Lol.  Good thing... cuz that engine was just NOT going to start. 

    Sigh.

    Out came the chain.  Fortunately, the truck was parked on a bit of an incline, so he was able to just coast it out of the parking space in neutral.  The chain came off 3 times before we left the parking lot, but the last time he got it on securely and we made it the mile-and-a-half home at a very slow pace, without further ado.

    With a high five to my honey for our great accomplishment, I went inside and marshalled the girls to get their shoes on so we could all go for a walk, rather than having them all vegetating in front of computers for the rest of the day.  What I really wanted was some exercise and quiet thinking time for myself, though, so I brilliantly conceived of a plan to achieve both.  I gave the four girls a $20 bill and a list of ingredients for the pico de gallo and guacamole I wanted to make for supper, and sent them over to the Ranch Market (1/2 mile away).  Then I took off in the opposite direction!    I have never sent my kids off on their own to the store like that before... this neighborhood always makes me a little trepidatious.  But having Lisa along as a bodyguard, I felt pretty secure that they would be fine.  And I had myself a wonderful walk -- I always think better when I walk.  If I'm not getting my walks, I am not getting my thinks, so I really have to get back into the swing of it.

    While we were walking, Paul and Jacob were working together on diagnosing Fabio's illness.  I got back and found Jacob looking at the manual and reading numbers to his dad, who was up on top of the engine inside the hood, checking spark plug wires.  When he had gotten everything plugged back where it should go, he sent Jacob up to the driver's seat and had him crank the engine to see if it would start, and lo and behold!  It did!  That was fun for The Boy.

    Unfortunately, there are still some unresolved issues, so Fabio is not yet drivable... Something about a coil.  I don't know what that means, except I'm not to drive it, or even attempt to correct the kitty-wumpus yard-encroaching parking job my husband did when he backed it into the driveway from the street where I had towed it to a stop.

    It was another 10 minutes after I got inside before my "personal shoppers" marched in, all of them exclaiming in bewilderment over the masses of people in that store.  I chuckled, since I have witnessed the fiesta-town it becomes on Sundays.  What I had forgotten was that this was SUPERBOWL Sunday, and oh, my.  People were mashed up in there like sardines!  The girls spent more time in line than they did shopping... I could only laugh.  I'm glad they had a memorable experience! 

    The rest of the afternoon was quiet.  I set about making my tostada supper while the kids watched Ice Age and Paul went to visit Susan, who is doing a bit better since her most recent surgery, and I think her infections are subsiding too.  When he got home, everyone piled their tostadas with taco beef, refried beans, lettuce, pico de gallo, guacamole, black olives, shredded cheese, and plain Greek yogurt instead of sour cream (wow, YUMM!) and we had a Pretender party.  Such a fun show... remember the 90's?  Miss Parker and her micro-mini skirts... lol!  I always thought she was so glamorous, if only she would add about 18 inches to her skirts

    Anyway... we wound it down after a couple of episodes and I took Lisa home so she could do her laundry for the week.  And that was our Sunday in a nutshell. 

    Now we are into another week of school, and I'm looking at doing some painting, taking the boy to karate and another dr's appointment, picking up my new glasses some time this week, and helping Jeff get sorted and packed for the move to his new apartment this coming weekend.  Lots to do!  I'd best get on it!


Friday, 05 February 2010

  • Currently
    The Complete Guide to Asperger's Syndrome
    By Tony Attwood
    see related

    About The Boy...

    Yesterday, after years of observing this charming yet undeniably quirky young man, culminating in several interviews and psychological tests, we were given a diagnosis for our bright, buoyant, yet often baffling boy.  Asperger's Syndrome is what they call this fascinating adventure, and I've put all my other reading on hold until I finish this book.



    I may eventually write more about this topic, but for now I am in learning mode.
    And one chapter in, I already want to recommend this book to anyone and everyone who has been blessed with one of these unique people in their lives.



Thursday, 04 February 2010

  • The Run-Around

    Where I've been this week, besides schoolin' the kiddos:

    TUES:
    • To the library, to pay a fine for a hardcover book that fell out of the van onto the driveway unnoticed until I backed up and ran over it.
    • To the orthodontist, to make appointments for consultations on the two youngest mouths in the family, only to find the door locked up tight.
    • To Saguaro Ranch again, so the oldest daughter could write a nature observation assignment for her writing course.
    • Back to the orthodontist, thinking surely they must be done with lunch by that time, only to find the door locked up tight.
    • Home for a few moments before heading over to Del Taco.
    WED:
    • Yesterday it was off to the eye doctor for myself and Geneva, where I was thankful her prescription had not changed since she just got replacement glasses not long ago, and where I had to spend oooooodles of cash on my own ever fluctuating eyesight -- but I am very much looking forward to my new frames!
    • Back home for a few moments before taking The Boy to karate, where I spent the time delving into a Daniel Silva book, even though my eyes were still wiggy from all the eyedrops.
    • Then home to Geneva's sumptuous casserole of layered MacNcheese, refried beans/canned chicken/salsa, more MacNcheese, enchilada sauce, and shredded cheese on top.  Yumm!!
    THURS:
    • And today there will be more running around and appointments, and more appointments next week, and probably the week after that, and then maybe finally we will be done with appointment season.
    P.S.
    I should mention, I watched the LOST season opener last night.  Still reeling...  Terry O'Quinn for every award imaginable...

Sunday, 31 January 2010

  • Sunday afternoon, relaxing in Sun Lakes

    Sunday afternoon in Sun Lakes...
    Yummy food - Fred's Blue Burgers, Pasta Salad, Grandma's Dill Pickles and Pickled Beets, and my Hullupches.

    Afterward Jacob went straight for the lego table, Ma tidied up, and the rest of us headed outdoors.
    Paul, Fred, and the girls each took a golf club and a bike and cycled over to the club house for a game of Chip N Putt.

    I stopped by Pat's flower pots on the back walkway to snap these pretty petals:






    A few feet away, some wildlife:




    ~*~*~*~*~

    I meandered over to the Chip-N-Putt course to see how the game was progressing. 
    They were still on the first hole.


    Grandpa Fred has so many golf trophies and awards it's not even funny. 
    He oughta play lefthanded and blindfolded to make it fair for everyone else...


    Fred giving Geneva some coaching on her stance.


    Megan, swinging for the hills...


    Geneva took a more judicious approach to the game,
    and consequently required several strokes to get to the putting green.


    Paul swinging for the hills.


    Everybody overshot except Fred.  Here they are on the other side of the green.


    When everyone finally sank their ball I was done, and bade them all a fond adieu. 
    (How do people play a whole 18 holes of this game??)

    ~*~*~*~*~

    These bright berries grow on a trellis beside the house:





Friday, 29 January 2010

  • All around the town...


    Dating season is so much fun.   
    These winter months with Paul's parents in town give us a couple of weekends per month where we pretend we're youngsters again,
     and we go on dates,
    running errands,
    shopping,
    hiking,
    and generally having a carefree time of it.

    Today we got up and on the road relatively late
    -- 8:30 --
    and headed for Home Depot to check out the pricing on shutters for our living room windows. 
    We have a bit of tax refund coming with which to do some improvements,
    and it's just possible we might be able to swing it. 
    But they aren't cheap. 

    Our next destination was Saguaro Ranch Park. 
    Here are some pics I took as we meandered around.

    As soon as we exited the car in the parking lot,
    we were mobbed by a flock of roosters coming at us from all directions at a dead run across the wide expanse of grass,
    eager and hopeful that we would offer them some tasty sustenance.
    Fortunately my husband never goes anywhere without sunflower seeds in the car.










    Hubby mine.


    The main ranch house.






    Out behind the main house, a grapefruit orchard.




    Another ranch building.


    Here is the vineyard and corn field, with more orchards further down the way.


    I know not what these trees produce, but I found them picturesque.


    At last, we found the peacocks.


    This youngster was terribly proud of his tail, and pranced around in front of me quite a bit to make sure I noticed.


    Alright, alright, I'll take a picture of the other side too...




    Lots of birdies...




    Oooh!  A tree!






    Somebody tell me what these are:


    Beautiful creature!




    ~*~*~*~*~

    From the park we headed over to visit Susan at the hospital,
    from which she is wishing mightily to be released. 
    They are trying to fight an infection and having lots of complications,
    so please do keep Susan in your prayers.

    The next stop was Boston Market for a yummy lunch.  I love their Caesar salad.

    And finally, back home again, to set about some house cleaning. 
    I folded laundry, while Paul put on his headphones, cranked up the tunes, and cleaned in the main area, taking out garbage and picking up, and then we both hit the kitchen - Paul washed, I dried. 
    I just love that... doing dishes together is the best.

    And that is my day from start to finish!


Saturday, 23 January 2010

  • A wintery walk at Rio Salado

    This afternoon we trekked over to Rio Salado for another nature walk, this time bringing all the kids along.
    Our last walk here was on January 1st, and what a difference three weeks made!





    The biggest difference - after a couple of days of heavy rain, and a big drop in temperatures, was in the river bed.  Today there was actually water:


    Lots of it:


    Swiftly running!


    And where, oh where have all the pretty leaves gone?


    I always like this view of the city through that wavy fence:


    Sunshine and clouds:


    A few leaves lingering, bravely clinging to barren branches:


    Kids under the bridge:


    Paul on a wall:


    It's hard to capture how bleak this really appeared... so much mud had washed through!


    Dead tree.


    Leaves on the ground:


    Beautiful white bark with orangey brown leaves fluttering in the wind:




    Further along the Waterfall Trail, a couple of trees have been used for carving initials:






    The boy found a climbing spot:


    Megan getting some closeup pics as Laurent looks on:


    Something green and growing!


    Headed up the trail to the upper pond:








    An uncharacteristically green tree:


    The upper pond:






    I don't know why I took this picture... a bunch of dead trees, right?  But something about the way the few remaining leaves danced merrily in the wind captivated me.


    Ducks:


    Oh dear, nobody was guarding the eggs!




    A bush with tiny purple flowers caught my eye:


    Geneva found some pretty rocks:


    The stream along the path on the way back... here were these bright green sprouts growing beneath the water:


    Kids on a bridge:


    Water, mountains, clouds, blue, sun.


    Kids and puddles.


    Perfect.



  • Scenes from my Saturday...

    • Smells of french roast coffee, cinnamon-nutmeg french toast and home-made syrup are wafting through the house from the kitchen where Laurent, who, when it is her turn to cook, rules with a velvet glove over her iron fist, and competently multitasks the food prep while shooing out would-be helpers who only get in her way.  

    • Out my window I see nothing over the rooftops but palm trees in stark relief against startling cerulean blue.  The storm has passed.  It was fun in an out-of-the-ordinary sort of way, but after a few days of gloom & doom in the skies, I remember one of the reasons we left the midwest... Nettie needs sunshine!!!

    • My hubby is taking us on an outing today -- we are joining a shooting club!  Today it is open to the public, which should be fun.  I expect we will bring along some gear and pop off a few rounds.   And, since it is right at the foot of South Mountain, we might just decide to take a hike while we're in the neighborhood, on such a loverly day as this.  I believe the weather forecast calls for highs in the high 50's, which couldn't be more perfect!  I just need to remember to bring a hat this time (and my camera, for sure!).

    • I am working on something special for my little grand-nephew who is going to make his appearance in about a month and a half.  Here's how much I have so far:








    It is so much fun!  I can't believe I haven't tried something like this before!


    ~*~*~*~*~

    Well, scratch that plan!  Chalk it up to non-communication between the parental units.  Paul and Geneva were missing for quite some time before it started to click in my sluggish, Saturday morning brain that he had mentioned last night that he might take Geneva down to the gun club and let her practice with "Tiger Lily" when he went to join.  Ah well, the family trip + hike will have to be next weekend.   That gives us a couple hours to do some cleaning here and maybe we can still go somewhere to hike this afternoon. 

    I'll keep ya posted!

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